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What is Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind about?
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is about finding balance in your life in order to get the most from your relationships. Joel and Clementine are driven to erase their memories because the painful moments they shared together are too overbearing. But Mary’s quote from Alexander Pope’s poem reveals that the “eternal sunshine of the spotless mind,” aka a mind that lives in blissful ignorance of the world’s problems and cruelties, is not realistic, or even feasible. As humans, we require a mix of good and bad. The positive moments lift us up and remind us of life’s beauties—but it’s unwise to deny that the negative moments can also provide catharsis. Our lowest moments allow us to reach our greatest heights. Using shortcuts to avoid those low moments places us in a state of perpetual immobility. In order for Joel and Clementine’s love to flourish, they have to address their individual insecurities. Erasing the other person won’t prevent them from an inevitable confrontation with their selves. They need to be ready for each other in order for the relationship to reach its full potential.
Movie Guide table of contents
Cast
- Jim Carrey – Joel Barish
- Kate Winslet – Clementine Kruczynski
- Kirsten Dunst – Mary Svevo
- Mark Ruffalo – Stan Fink
- Elijah Wood – Patrick Wertz
- Tom Wilkinson – Dr. Howard Mierzwiak
- Jane Adams – Carrie Eakin
- David Cross – Rob Eakin
- Deirdre O’Connell – Hollis Mierzwiak
- Thomas Jay Ryan – Frank
- Debbon Ayer – Joel’s mother
- Charlie Kaufman – Writer
- Michel Gondry – Director
The ending of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind explained
A recap of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind‘s ending
Fittingly, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind ends with the beginning. We replays the scenes of Joel waking up feeling confused, having no idea that he’s just undergone treatment to erase his memories of Clementine. On the way to work, he impulsively takes a train to Montauk, where he meets Clementine and starts up a new relationship, unaware that his previous relationship with her has just ended. Clementine, who also had the procedure done, has no idea either. Yet here they are, both in Montauk, drawn by fate.
They would have gone on forever without knowing about the procedure—if it weren’t for Mary. After learning that she also had the procedure done to forget about Howard, Mary feels betrayed and decides to mail everybody in Howard’s database about the procedure. So on the way to Joel’s house, Clementine pops a cassette into Joel’s tape player, and together they listen to Clementine list all the reasons she wants to forget Joel. Believing she is messing with him, Joel kicks Clementine out of his car.
At home, Joel discovers his files as well. Clementine shows up at his apartment and listens to the tape with him. Disturbed by the things he said, Clementine leaves his apartment. But Joel chases after her, saying that he wants to give their relationship another try. Clementine agrees, and they laugh.
The movie closes out with Joel and Clementine playing in the snow on Montauk Beach. We watch the same footage loop three times as white slowly consumes the frame.
Why is the movie called Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?
In order to properly talk about the ending of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, we must first address the title itself. The title is spoken aloud by Mary at the beginning of the scene where she recites some quotes that she thought Howard would like. Providing contexts for these poems will not only shed light on why the movie has its title, but will equip us to better understand the ending.
Mary starts with a quote from Friedrich Nietzsche: “Blessed are the forgetful, for they get the better even of their blunders.” This quote refers to the idea that forgetting is not merely a passive loss of memory but can also be a positive, active force that allows people to move beyond their past mistakes. Nietzsche believed that if you could forget about certain things, then you could life a life that isn’t mired in guilt or resentment. This way, you could constantly reevaluate and reinvent yourself. While this is an optimistic way to view life, we’ll soon learn that such a mentality is a double-edged sword.
Mary then reads the quote that gives the film its title. The quote comes from Alexander Pope’s poem Eloisa to Abelard, and it reads: “How happy is the blameless Vestal’s lot! The world forgetting, by the world forgot. Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind! Each prayer accepted, and each wish resign’d.” This poem focuses on a letter written by Héloïse d’Argenteuil (who is referred to as Eloisa in the poem) to Pierre Abelard, who together shared a tragic love affair in the 12th century.
First, some background on the poem: Abelard was a prominent philosopher in Paris and became Héloïse’s tutor when she was young and living with her uncle Fulbert. Their academic relationship then blossomed into a passionate love affair, and eventually Héloïse became pregnant. They secretly married after she gave birth to a son, but to protect Abelard’s career, the marriage was kept secret. However, Héloïse’s uncle Fulbert felt betrayed and sought revenge and arranged for Abelard to be castrated, which meant Abelard had to flee and end the relationship. It forced them into separate paths within the church, where Héloïse became a nun (a “nun” is also known as a “vestal”) and Abelard a monk. Ostensibly, they were too reinvent themselves through the church, yet neither were able to overcome the emotional turmoil of losing their significant other. We found about their entire relationship because of the letters they wrote one another.
With that context, the quote gains so much meaning. Essentially, the line celebrates the idea of a mind at peace, unperturbed by life’s complexities, by the cruelty of relationships, by the atrocities of the world. “The blameless Vestal’s lot” refers to a Vestal Virgin’s life in ancient Rome, whose duty was to live a life of chastity and dedicate themself to the gods, thereby avoiding the drama of earthly love. The “eternal sunshine of the spotless mind” suggests an “ideal” state of mental tranquility and purity, free from the scars and turmoil that love and loss can inflict. The mind is, in this context, “spotless.”
While Eloisa (the stand-in for Héloïse) sentiment can be read earnestly in its idealization of a nun’s life, which is free from the universal troubles that plague those who chase love, there’s undoubtedly a heavy layer of irony here. Because…it’s not exactly realistic. It’s an idealization of a life that’s free from the pain and misery that relationships can inflict. But in order to avoid all those troubles, it requires you to become completely closed off from relationships, which means you’re willing to sacrifice all the life-affirming fulfillments that come with chasing love. Of course there are going to be moments where love really sucks and makes you regret ever chasing it. But a profound, meaningful, lifelong relationship with another human being provides so much goodness in our lives as well. By outright avoiding all the bad, you sacrifice so much good.
This is the irony of Eloisa’s quote. She could be outright mocking the blissfully ignorant life of nuns, but a softer reading suggests Eloisa is simply reflecting on her won turmoil and the stark contrast between her inner world and the idealized state of peace and purity associated with a religious life. As much as she chases a fulfilling connection with God, it will never fill the void left by Abelard. Her invocation of the “blameless Vestal’s lot” and the “eternal sunshine of the spotless mind” conveys a longing for an existence free from the pain caused by losing Abelard, yet this longing is not only unachievable for her but also undesirable, as it would require her to sacrifice the experiences that are fundamental to her being.
Which brings us to Mary and Howard.
What Mary and Howard represent to the story
The intrigue of the “eternal sunshine of the spotless mind,” as we’ve stated, is the ignorant bliss such a mindset allows. You can tell Mary is attracted to this idea in the scene where she smokes with Stan and says, “It’s amazing what Howard gives to the world. To let people begin again. It’s beautiful. You look at a baby and it’s so pure and so free and clean. And adults are this mess of phobias and sadness. And Howard just makes it all go away.” Mary is clearly moved by Howard’s ability to remove painful memories from people’s brain, to give people a fresh start. But you can tell there’s a bit of naïveté to her sentiments. She believes it’s possible to achieve a life free from “phobias and sadness.” But anybody who’s lived life knows that isn’t possible.
We’ve known this truth for centuries, as it’s become a basic component of life that’s difficult to understand and accept. Philosophers like Søren Kierkegaard, for instance, was fascinated by the role of anguish in existence. He believed that despair, anxiety, and suffering are not only inevitable aspects of human life but are also crucial for the individual’s self-realization and pursuit of authentic existence. This idea, in fact, is a recurring theme of writer Charlie Kaufman’s scripts. Being John Malkovich, a movie where people use a portal to inhabit actor John Malkovich’s body, is all about self-actualization. Interestingly enough, the movie’s protagonist, Craig, uses Malkovich as a shortcut to achieve a more fulfilling life.
As you can see from this parallel thread, Kaufman is fascinated by the allure of cheating existence, of finding ways to sidestep life’s biggest obstacles. It’s not something we can actually do, yet constantly make ourselves believe we can do. We are drawn to the diet pill that will lose the weight for us, that doesn’t require us to address the host of other reasons we’re not losing the weight ourselves, such as low self-esteem, laziness, lack of discipline, etc. Likewise, Mary is drawn to Howard’s medical procedure because it allows people to finally erase the most painful moments of their existence.
Alas, life is never that easy. As much as Howard makes it seem possible with science, we will soon see that people like Mary and Clementine and Joel become inextricably intertwined with important energies in their lives. Ironically enough, Nietzsche—the guy who Mary quoted earlier, who idealized a life where you could choose to forget your past mistakes in order to reinvent yourself—wrote about how pain and suffering were necessary in the cultivation of the human spirit. In Thus Spoke Zarathustra, Nietzsche discusses the idea of amor fati, or “love of fate,” which means embracing all aspects of your life. He believed that overcoming difficulties and embracing suffering is essential for personal growth and the development of a strong individual will. Nietzsche argued that without experiencing and accepting pain, you cannot achieve greatness or understand the full spectrum of joy.
This reveals the double-edge of his Nietzsche’s sword. While you can certainly choose to move past your past mistakes and reinvent yourself, you must also accept that pain and sadness inevitably lie in your future. Mary has idolized Howard because she has bought into his lie: that you can make all the sadness go away, that you can live in a world where a painful relationship can be erased from your existence. But…that person you tried to erase will always be there. And if Mary was attracted to Howard once, then she will continue to be attracted to him on the other side of Lacuna’s procedure. Howard has become a spiritual part of her life, essential to her existence. To deny that is to deny being human. Howard represents a core aspect of Mary’s identity, a cognitive dissonance she has yet to overcome. You can erase memories, but you cannot erase one’s humanity. And humanity, the very act of living, comes with both the good and the bad. And instead of combatting the bad, we must learn to coexist with the positive and the negative.
Which brings us to the closing of Joel and Clementine’s story and what it means.
Clem and Joel’s renewal
The error of Howard’s procedure is that it’s too clinical to properly understand the emotional depths of the human mind. From Howard’s perspective, all he’s doing is erasing memories. But inside Joel’s head, we see that he can actively engage those memories. It’s why he and Clementine can have new interactions in Joel’s memory, why Clementine can say things she never said in real life. Joel doesn’t just see Clementine—he knows her. He feels her. She is an inextricable component of his DNA. And Howard’s scientific approach could have never accounted for that.
When Clementine and Joel rediscover each other, it’s the movie’s symbolic way of saying that we can never truly sidestep life’s biggest hurdles. Just because we’ve erased somebody from our rearview mirror doesn’t mean they’ll cease to be in front of us. Sooner or later, whatever that person represents to your life will present itself to you. No matter what Lacuna does, Joel will continue to be too reserved to foster a deep relationship, and Clementine will be too impulsive to keep another close; Joel will disguise is low self-esteem with isolation, and Clementine will address hers with alcohol; Joel will allow his past haunt him, while Clementine will hide from the future. So at the end of the movie, Joel and Clementine make a commitment to fixing the things that ruined their first attempt at a relationship. It’s a form of renewal that doesn’t require them to forget the bad things, but embrace them, to acknowledge that our lowest moments allow us to reach our greatest heights.
This is why I love the very end of the movie. We are transported to Montauk Beach, where Clementine, in an almost divine moment during the erasing of Joel’s memories where she oscillates between dream world and real world, tells Joel to meet her once he wakes up, which he does, and Clementine is there waiting for him, almost like the universe willed their energies together, that civilization couldn’t move forward until these two people gave their relationship another try. Here on this beach, Joel and Clementine run in the snow, and we watch the same loop play out three times, as if the film is acknowledging that no matter what timeline these people choose, they will experience this moment in some way, shape, or form.
This loop represents this film’s beautiful cyclical aesthetic. The movie begins with the ending of Joel and Clementine’s relationship. Then we dive into Joel’s mind and go backwards in erasing his memories, which means as we get closer and closer to the beginning of their relationship, we’re actually getting closer to the end of it. And then on the other side of the procedure, the relationship starts anew. Which means the ending of the movie starts with the beginning of something. It’s a cycle. It’s always part of their existence. And they can’t run from what is.
Accepting what is inevitably part of your future, good or bad, is simply part of understanding existence. By adopting this mentality, Clementine and Joel thus experience a form of renewal, a chance to address those anxieties they so desperately wish to forget. If this is true love, then it’s worth fighting for. It’s worth confronting yourself for.
The themes, meaning, and message of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
You can’t fake true love
Patrick’s role in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind isn’t substantial, but it is significant. While Joel is sleeping, he can hear Patrick confessing to using Joel’s memories to win over Clementine. And it works for a while. After the Lacuna procedure, Clementine is clearly all out of sorts, unable to comprehend that she is missing somebody important from her life. She is emotionally vulnerable and susceptible to anyone who displays a modicum of empathy or understanding. The comfort Patrick providing her, however, is fake, manufactured, and deep down it seems Clementine senses this is the case.
This dynamic serves as a fascinating continuation of what we discussed in the ending explanation. Howard’s operation is too clinical for its own good. The doctor is only focused on the science of his procedure, the physical act of removing memories. But inside Joel’s mind, Clementine isn’t just a memory—she comes to life. Joel knows her inside and out. Which means he’s able to imagine what she’d say and how she’d react to the entire situation. This reveals love to be something deeper than a nice gift (like a flea market necklace) or a shared moment of bliss (like when Joel says he could “die right now” with Clem on the ice). Love is something you build, that exists and is shared between two people. It’s a deep component of our subconsciousness, that’s so natural to us we don’t even need to actively think about it. Joel clearly has that with Clementine, and Patrick clearly does not.
The importance of good communication
While lying in bed with Clementine, in a moment where she’s trying to get him to open up about his life, Joel responds by saying, “Constantly talking isn’t necessarily communication.” In many ways, he is both right and wrong. He is right in the sense that it reveals Clementine to be tad overbearing and self-consumed. In both instances where Joel and Clementine meet for the first time—both before and after the Lacuna procedure—she is the one to approach him. Despite his clear nervousness and reservation, she forces him into conversation. She is painfully unaware of his insecurities, of the fact that he’d rather be left alone.
But, of course, if she had never talked to him and forced him to respond, their relationship would have never developed. Because Clementine’s approach was so radical in its persistence, she was able to counteract Joel’s radical reservedness. And that middle territory is where they thrive, where fruitful communication is found. Neither are necessarily good communicators in their own rights, with Clementine being too forthright and Joel being too internal; she is intimidating in her forcefulness, and Joel is impenetrable in his journal scribbling. And this inability to bridge the gap is what destroys their relationship.
But it also presents a chance for renewal. When Joel and Clementine commit to giving their relationship another go, they do it with the knowledge that their communication wasn’t sound the first time around. Instead of expressing their gripes to Howard on a tape recorder, they should be saying these things out loud to each other with an empathetic tone. Being on the other side of a failed relationship that you’ve both forgotten about in a science fiction film is just an extreme, defamiliarized way of showing how two people can fix a broken relationship, how they can rebuild their love through good, honest communication.
Questions & answers about Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Joel and Clementine’s relationship timeline explained
Many people are confused about Joel and Clementine’s relationship timeline, and how many times they erased one another. For the record, they each performed the procedure just one time. Here’s how their relationship plays out in the movie:
- Joel and Clementine meet at a beach party. This is the last memory we see inside Joel’s mind during the Lacuna procedure.
- Joel visits Clementine at work and apologizes for running out of the house on the beach. They begin to date.
- They share many good times together, like when they pretend to suffocate each other with a pillow. But eventually the relationship begins to fall apart, exemplified by the scene in the Chinese restaurant.
- Clementine can’t deal with Joel’s poor communication anymore and decides to erase him from her memory. Joel responds by doing the procedure as well.
- On the other side of the operation, Joel is compelled to Montauk because of what Clementine said in his subconscious. There he meets Clementine once again for the “first time.”
- Joel and Clementine find out the truth about the procedure. Despite the failure of their relationship the first time around, they decide to give it another go.
How can Joel interact with his memories?
I think this reveals Howard’s practice to be too clinical for its own good. Joel’s very ability to exist separately inside his mind, to manufacture a new world where he and Clementine can run away, is symbolic of the emotional bonds we form with people. Howard’s procedure is science-first, is consumed with the idea of physically erasing memories. But the film argues that there’s a deeper, inseverable emotional connection that inherently binds us. Joel’s ability to interact with his memories displays this tension.
Why can’t Joel see Patrick in during the procedure?
Simple answer here. Joel didn’t see Patrick in the moment where he kissed Clementine, so he can’t see her when the memory is recreated. And his face is distorted at Lacuna because it was a fleeting moment where Joel wasn’t concentrating on Patrick’s face.
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